Friday, February 26, 2010

Five Tips for a Healthy Marriage



Having finished our recent message series on How to Have a Healthy Marriage I wanted to share some very practical things that I didn't get to share in the series. These are very simple "tips" for keeping your marriage healthy, but they work! I hope you will implement these timeless tips in your relationship.

1- Pray together regularly! You don't have to pray together every day, but spending time with your mate in prayer will make a huge difference in your relationship. Find a time to spend a few minutes together- with God.

2- Study God's Word together! I have never yet met a couple that was spending time together in the scriptures who said it was a waste of time. In fact, the opposite is always true. Couple's who read the Bible together or study together will draw closer to each other. This is exactly why I wrote the 30 days to a Healthy Marriage.

3- Have regular dates with each other! Someone has said, "the things we did to fall in love are the things we must do to stay in love". Having a regular date night is one way to keep a marriage healthy and alive.

4- Find a common interest! At times the only thing couples' have in common are their kids and their bills. Find a hobby, a sport, or an activity that both of you love to do and not just something you "have" to do.

5- Do something special for no reason! We give gifts and cards and do things for our spouses on certain days and for special occasions. Spice your relationship up by doing something for each other for no reason at all. You will be surprised how much a surprise builds your relationship!

These five simple tips are simply a way to get you started on building your marriage. There are literally thousands of things you can do to keep your marriage healthy and vibrant. You simply have to work at it.

Friday, February 12, 2010

A Multiplying Movement




I recently received a You Tube video from a friend that shows a great picture of how a movement gets started. You've got to watch this clip! This is how the Church ought to work.

Two thousand years ago Jesus Christ came to earth to do two things. First, he came to make the redemption of mankind possible. His sacrifice on the cross and resurrection from the dead make it possible for man to be reconciled to God. Secondly, Jesus came to start a movement of multiplying disciples that would be committed to passing on this message of redemption. Jesus began that movement with only a handful of followers, but that group has multiplied into thousands and thousands of followers.

Today the plan for having a movement of multiplying disciples is on our hands. If we do not pass on to the next generation what has been given to us, the movement ceases to exist! This causes me to wonder if there is really anything more important for the church to be doing other than making disciples? I think not!

I continue to be amazed at how many believers are not making any effort whatsoever to fulfill the priority of multiplying a movement of Christ followers. With good intentions we have churches filled with Christ followers who give no thought at all to doing the very thing Jesus himself came to do...make disciples!

The world needs us to get serious about making disciples. The nations need the church to become a movement of multiplying disciples. Are you willing to be one of the "nuts" that makes a ripple for Christ? Are you willing to start dancing for Jesus until others are dancing as well? I challenge you to live your life as a personal multiplier of disciples. Very few people are willing to do so.